Keys To

LOVE 'n' MARRIAGE




MEN


THE RELATIONSHIP


WOMEN






SPIRIT


JESUS COMES FIRST

"Make Christian Friends"

Relate to others as though they are your siblings.

Christian relationships should never
be unequally yoked (2 Corinthians 614)

Go out in Christian groups, not spending time with just one person if they are of the opposite gender.






SPIRIT






SOUL


BEST FRIENDS

"Making Close Friends"

Relating Mentally and Emotionally.

Attracted to a single specific
individual of the opposite gender.
 Having an intimacy of the minds.

One begins to look good to you, and you to
them.  Engagement comes after this proves out.






SOUL






BODY


NOW THE MARRIAGE!!

"Relating with sensual and sexual expressions"

Now the physical through sexual intimacy.  This
includes the kissing, holding, caressing, touching.

These forms of touching, when begun, will initiate deeper forms
of sexuality.  It's dangerous grounds for the unmarried.
These things will indeed lead on into deeper sensual things.






BODY





What Males And Females Need And Expect


MEN
WOMEN
Men Need Respect...
 (Ephesians 5 21,25-27)
................................................................................
She R elies on him for protection.
She E nters his world as best friend.
She S aves herself physically for him;
           no flirting with others, etc.
She P ampers him.
She E njoys hearing his thoughts.
She C heers him on;  She's proud of
           him and praises him.
She T rusts him explicitly.
Her E yes of admiration only for him.
She D olls herself up for him.
                                                        		Women Need a Loving Caress...
 (Ephesians 5 21-24)
........................................................................
  He's a C ompanion to her.
     He's A ffectionate.
   He's a R eal Deal.  He's himself.
  He's an E ncouragement and uplifting to her.
He's her S ecurity, her leader, and protector
                  of her name and honor.
     She's S ignificant to him and he treats her like she's a Princess.





Words of Wisdom About Relationships


   1.  Never say "I Love You" to someone unless you're ready for a committment.

   2.  Women are emotional, so she is aroused through her emotions and what she "feels".... because how she feels about something is an emotional trait.

   3.  Men are logical, so he is aroused by what he sees... because to him, that's the logical thing to do.

   4.  Be Spiritual first, with a relationship with Jesus Christ of Nazareth, then best of friends, then you get engaged, and then marriage after which you get sexual.

   5.  Never be alone with someone of the opposite gender unless you're married to them.