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While working at an Electronics Factory near my home, I had a lead man
who seemed to not know how to take my good nature and joyful attitude
about life.
For the first few weeks I noticed *John would stand off a bit
and watch me; Almost like he was studying me. He'd usually
stand cross armed, glaring at me from behind a work bench or machine,
sometimes leaning against something. It became almost unnerving.
After a while, I felt I had too much of this unsmiling, [seemingly]
unfeeling stare. I'd mentioned this to a coworker and friend,
*Maggie. I told her what I'd noticed, my uncomfortable
feelings and what I was thinking of doing. I'd planned to give
him a big overdone grin every time I saw *John staring at me
like that.
She told me that I shouldn't do anything that might get him angry with
me since he's got authority over me. I felt that there wasn't much
that could be done. I mean, if he filed a complaint; what could
he say? "This man smiled at me!" Well, I didn't think that would
happen so I followed through with my plan.
Each time I 'caught' him staring at me with that blank
questioning look, I would give him a great big smile. He'd stare
from the right and I'd smile really big toward him. He'd stare from the
left and again I'd give a huge over done grin toward him.
Finally, after *Maggie warned me that if I continued I might get
fired for antagonizing *John, I caught him watching me with his
intense glare. I paused for a moment, thinking carefully about
what *Maggie told me. Finally I thought, "If this is going
to do any good, Lord, let it happen now."
I quickly swung my head toward *John and gave him the biggest grin
I'd ever given anyone. Suddenly, *John burst out in laughter
and exclaimed, "SNURR! You and that BIG SILLY GRIN! "
I replied, "Grin?!? I thought that was a whole great big smile."
From that moment, we became friends and worked together quite well.
When there would come a difficult job, I would be the one he would come
to complete it. I appreciated his trust and confidence in my work.
Ultimately, if *John had not seen the wonderful joy the Lord put
into my heart, we probably would have not have bridged the gap and become
friends.
I thank God that He can show himself through me to those who need Him most.
NOTE
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* The names were changed as I haven't been able to obtain permission
to use them.
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